MEET victoria mexcur lcmhcs, LIMHP
YOU DON’T HAVE TO CARRY THIS alone.
I flat out love what I do, and I’m honored to walk along side of you. Healing looks different for everyone, so I’ll meet you where you are and bring a variety of skills, tools and knowledge that fits!
BEING HERE DOESN’T MEAN YOU’RE WEAK—IT MEANS YOU’RE strong.
Here’s the official stuff… I’m licensed in North Carolina (LCMHCS) and Nebraska (LIMHP) for mental health counseling. I see clients in person on the farm near Charlotte, offer in person intensives in Nebraska and North Carolina, and offer virtual anywhere in both states
My people: High performers with performance anxiety, anyone carrying trauma, veterans and first responders with PTSD (combat and non-combat), and rural folks who want someone that knows something about ranching and farming that they don’t have to worry about bumping into at the grocery store. I’m EMDR trained, trained in Somatic Experiencing (through Advanced 2), and am certified to include equines in therapy.
How I work
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I BELIEVE CHANGE HAPPENS WHEN YOU build relationships.
I like to tell people that I’m relational (we are a team) straight forward with a side of whimsical fun! It’s important to be able to find empowerment in the resiliency that has been built and give space for the sadness, anger, hurt that was also experienced. That’s how you keep being amazing without it costing you everything!
Some would say that I’m playfully professional and that’s because I LOVE what I do!
I also believe that repair, mirroring and modeling are crucial to building emotional safety and that therapy is the best place to practice that. Therapy is a place to try new things, skills and approaches and has a multitude of creative options. The motto here is “dare to do it different” so lets!
HEre’s what I believe about therapy:
“Its not about the thing, its about the other thing”
You come to therapy because there is a pressing issue that may have an underlying experience that seeps into how we function in day to day life. When that happens, we struggle and spin out asking “WHY??” with really no answer to satisfy or resolve the experiences. There are so many things that are interconnected that we need to unravel it and reorganize what we think, feel and sense with our life stories.
The “muchness” can be regulated.
Our bodies hold all of our experiences and stories and if we have a lot unresolved it can be a little “much”. Picture a tank overflowing while you try to do “normal” day to day life (it’s a bit much right?) Together we build awareness, alignment and skills to support our nervous system move through our histories AND our day to day.
It cant always be serious
Yes this stuff is serious and I take it VERY seriously. You should see how I advocate (mama bear ride or die status insert here) and yet we also get to bring in some playfulness, fun and whimsy! In order for our nervous system to feel safe, strong and empowered, it needs to also be able to take a break with a breath and a laugh. Did you know that laughing helps bring more oxygen and moves your muscles to down regulate safely without being all kumbaya about it?? Our bodies get to work on being safe while we work on the other things that hurt and brought you to therapy.
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Fun Tidbits: Love me some plants, so much that I have 100+ that I love to share with clients and sell as a hobby. I also do endurance horseback riding, completing 50 miles on Bellagio and am bringing up a colt named SoCo to continue on in his path in both seeing clients and endurance…Oh and when I’m not doing all that, I loosely “train” for triathlons or enjoying a girl dinner and a sheet mask couch rotting (it’s all about balance right lol).
Passionate dislikes: celery and peas (come at me).
Spirit Animals: Hummingbirds and Turtles…I will always stop and help them cross the road.
My Background
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Somatic Experiencing level 1
EMDR Trained
Certified to include equines in therapy sessions -
Masters of Science in Education
University of Nebraska- Kearney, NEPost Masters Equine Assisted Mental Health Practitioner Certificate
University of Denver, COBachelors of Arts in Psychology
Palm Beach Atlantic University, FLLicensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor (LCMHCS)- NC# 17023
Licensed Independent Mental Health Counselor (LIMHP)- NE# 1767
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